Healthy and unhealthy ways of dealing and resolving conflict.

Table 1: Healthy and unhealthy ways of dealing and resolving conflict.

Harmful Reactions	Well Reactions
An inability to recognize and respond to another partner.	The capacity to understand and return to another partner.
Unhealthy reactions (Explosive, irritated, wounding, and insulted reactions).	Healthy reactions (Calm, non-distrustful, and humble reactions).
The unhealthy consequences of conflict are a loss of love, rejection, separation, embarrassing, and fear of refusal.	A readiness to excuse and forget, without holding irritations or anger.
An inability to finding the middle ground or listen to the other person's opinion.	The ability to seek to find the middle ground and avoid punishing partner.
The reluctance to settle conflict; the expectation of adverse outcomes.	A belief that facing conflict face-to-face is the most elegant thing for both partners.